{"id":47,"date":"2010-01-23T04:50:00","date_gmt":"2010-01-23T04:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lunaemami.com\/?p=47"},"modified":"2015-04-17T10:43:21","modified_gmt":"2015-04-17T10:43:21","slug":"its-positive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lunaemami.com\/?p=47","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s positive!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dear baby, <\/p>\n<p>Mum found out she&#8217;s pregnant today &#8211; and funny how it happened. Around 2:00 this morning, I was having my last smoke for the day by the condo&#8217;s window when I subconsciously stroked my tummy. It kinda felt bloated. Because my period was already delayed for more than a week, an idea popped in my head&#8230; I could be pregnant!<\/p>\n<p>Your dad and I was about to watch a flick on the telly then, but I asked him to go out and buy the cheapest home kit pregnancy test from a nearby 24-hour pharmacy. He disliked the idea (he was just feeling lazy!), and told me it could wait until the next day. I begged him and said I won&#8217;t be able to sleep until I found out.<\/p>\n<p>And so he went. When he got back, I opened the box and placed the contents beside our bed (a single mattress on the floor), I didn&#8217;t feel like peeing yet. We started watching the movie (I can&#8217;t remember which). Thirty minutes into it, I suddenly felt going to the bathroom so I brought the test with me. I&#8217;m familiar with the brand and knew that it can come up with the result in less than a minute.<\/p>\n<p>I held my breath. Within 40 seconds, I saw the two strips, indicating a positive result. I was terrified! Mum and dad&#8217;s initial plan was to have a baby two years after the wedding. Not that soon.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.lunaemami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/IMG_0507.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"300\" width=\"230\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.lunaemami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/IMG_0507.jpg?resize=230%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436271198490788642\" style=\"cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 246px;\" \/><\/a><br \/><center>The scary result.<\/center><br \/>I walked out of the bathroom and told him in a flat tone, &#8220;It&#8217;s positive&#8221;. He nodded to express <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">&#8216;I hear ya&#8217;<\/span> and said, &#8220;We&#8217;ll go to the doctor tomorrow&#8221; . We continued watching the movie, but obviously our minds were someplace else. I tried to remember my last menstrual cycle, and recounted the days until my fertile period. Mum is certain that you&#8217;re made in China. Beijing, to be exact.<\/p>\n<p>When the movie ended, though both distressed, we tried to get some sleep so we could wake up early for a visit to the OB clinic. <\/p>\n<p>We roused at noon. Gabe, your soon-to-be aunt, was wondering why we were awake so early. We didn&#8217;t tell her what we were up to since we wanted to wait for the doctor&#8217;s findings before making an announcement.<\/p>\n<p>Philippine General Hospital (PGH) is just a 20-minute FX\/jeep ride away from our place. But instead of going there to look for an OB, we scanned the row of laboratories\/clinics just across it and found United Diagnostic Laboratory. We anxiously waited at the receiving area for my turn. After 15 minutes, a nurse escorted us to the second floor. <\/p>\n<p>I met the OB privately, dad stayed at the hall. Her name is Dra. Manbee Granada, and we call her Manbee the OB. Cute, ei? Anyway, the ultrasound showed a small black hallow hole which could be you, but no heartbeat was detected yet. She said if my guess is right, that you were conceived mid-December, then it means you&#8217;re only about 4 weeks old.  <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.lunaemami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/IMG_0510.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" height=\"300\" width=\"225\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.lunaemami.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/01\/IMG_0510.jpg?resize=225%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436275154597336962\" style=\"cursor: hand; cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 240px;\" \/><\/a><br \/><center>That&#8217;s you baby at 4 weeks! Sorry for the crappy photo, there&#8217;s nothing much to see anyway.<\/center><br \/>She advised me to come back after a couple of weeks for a follow up ultrasound. By then you should already have a heartbeat and should be more visible. <\/p>\n<p>I stepped out of her cubicle and showed the ultrasound to your dad. We were still tangled up in mixed emotions then: Confused, nervous, frustrated, upset&#8230; But we also felt a tinge of excitement when we saw the report!  <\/p>\n<p>Dad doesn&#8217;t have a stable job right now and mum&#8217;s unemployed. We cannot fly to Australia (where your dad grew up) yet because one of the requirements for mum&#8217;s spouse visa is an x-ray check up &#8211; which I cannot undergo now because of the pregnancy. We&#8217;d have to reschedule that after you&#8217;re born.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t have much money as of the moment, but we sure do have more than most people living in poverty. As long as your dad and I are together, we&#8217;re confident that everything&#8217;s gonna be alright.<\/p>\n<p>See you again in two weeks, baby.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear baby, Mum found out she&#8217;s pregnant today &#8211; and funny how it happened. Around 2:00 this morning, I was having my last smoke for the day by the condo&#8217;s window when I subconsciously stroked my tummy. It kinda felt bloated. 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